{"id":2267,"date":"2026-02-26T09:47:27","date_gmt":"2026-02-26T09:47:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/?p=2267"},"modified":"2026-04-11T18:12:58","modified_gmt":"2026-04-11T18:12:58","slug":"narcissist-new-supply","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/narcissist-new-supply\/","title":{"rendered":"Narcissist New Supply: Why They Move On Fast and What It Really Means for You"},"content":{"rendered":"<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-1\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-2762\" src=\"http:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/Re-EDIT-50.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"2240\" height=\"1260\" \/><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-2\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Seeing a narcissist move on instantly can feel like a punch to the gut, but there\u2019s more beneath the surface. This is just feeding their need for a source of supply. Not an actual replacement.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The narcissist requires a level of admiration and validation for the false self of grandeur they have envisioned themselves as. When they are not draining you they need someone else to make them feel validated.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Understanding the concept of narcissist new supply is crucial to grasping their behavior in relationships.<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-3\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This article will break down why narcissists move on quickly, what it says about them (not you), and how to detach and begin a healing journey that can take far above what you\u2019ve been through and the journey you are on.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_81 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/narcissist-new-supply\/#What_Is_a_Narcissists_%E2%80%9CNew_Supply%E2%80%9D\" >What Is a Narcissist\u2019s \u201cNew Supply\u201d?\u00a0<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/narcissist-new-supply\/#Why_Narcissists_Move_On_So_Fast\" >Why Narcissists Move On So Fast\u00a0<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/narcissist-new-supply\/#What_It_Really_Means_for_You\" >What It Really Means for You\u00a0<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/narcissist-new-supply\/#How_does_a_narcissist_treat_new_supply\" >How does a narcissist treat new supply?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/narcissist-new-supply\/#Signs_the_Narcissist_Is_Using_the_New_Supply_to_Get_to_You\" >Signs the Narcissist Is Using the New Supply to Get to You\u00a0<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/narcissist-new-supply\/#How_to_Emotionally_Detach\" >How to Emotionally Detach\u00a0<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/narcissist-new-supply\/#Will_the_New_Supply_Eventually_See_the_Truth\" >Will the New Supply Eventually See the Truth?\u00a0<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2 data-rm-block-id=\"block-4\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_Is_a_Narcissists_%E2%80%9CNew_Supply%E2%80%9D\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What Is a Narcissist\u2019s \u201cNew Supply\u201d?\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-5\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-2269\" src=\"http:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-1024x765.png\" alt=\"Person holding a broken mirror.\" width=\"1024\" height=\"765\" srcset=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-1024x765.png 1024w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-300x224.png 300w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-768x573.png 768w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-150x112.png 150w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08.png 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-6\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When the narcissist loses you they need to fill the void in them that you were filling. Their first priority after they lose you is to fulfill their validation. It\u2019s about quantity not quality. They had quality and couldn\u2019t handle that.<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-7\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The new supply is not new love, it&#8217;s an ego feeding supply that will be discarded when their useful life is done. It\u2019s about the use not the feelings, they do not understand actual feelings other than their own.<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-8\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A narcissist is emotionally underdeveloped so they rely on the supply of others to fill the voids in their emotions, to fulfill their grand vision of themselves and make them feel emotionally alive. If they lose one source they need to quickly to stay in the right light publicly.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 data-rm-block-id=\"block-9\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Why_Narcissists_Move_On_So_Fast\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Why Narcissists Move On So Fast\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-10\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-2270\" src=\"http:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-1-1024x765.png\" alt=\"Mannequin surrounded by phones displaying hearts\" width=\"1024\" height=\"765\" srcset=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-1-1024x765.png 1024w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-1-300x224.png 300w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-1-768x573.png 768w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-1-150x112.png 150w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-1.png 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<h4 data-rm-block-id=\"block-11\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">1. They Need Constant Validation<\/span><\/h4>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-12\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A narcissist&#8217;s new supply is immediately sought out, because the narc just lost their main supply that handled the emotional stuff for them, their emotional discomfort is at an all time high and they can\u2019t handle accountability so it\u2019s easier to just put a band aid on the pain.<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-13\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The narcissist can not self soothe or emotionally regulate. When they lose their supply, they are lost. They don\u2019t know what to do or say, they need someone to tell them how amazing they are, otherwise they might forget or have to deal with their emotions.<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-14\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For us emotionally it feels like we never meant anything to them and they just moved on. In fact they are just filling the hole in them that we used to have to constantly fill. Look at it as a replacement for your job, and enjoy your retirement.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-2271\" src=\"http:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-2-1024x765.png\" alt=\"Elegant party with people socializing.\" width=\"1024\" height=\"765\" srcset=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-2-1024x765.png 1024w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-2-300x224.png 300w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-2-768x573.png 768w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-2-150x112.png 150w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-2.png 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<h4 data-rm-block-id=\"block-15\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">2. They Fear Being Alone<\/span><\/h4>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-16\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A narcissist builds themselves on the opinions of others, so when you leave them, people are building a new opinion and a narcissist new supply, is part of the story of how they can bounce right back and they didn\u2019t get hurt facade.<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-17\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The narcissist after a break up is like a lost child emotionally, and they will latch onto the first thing that gives them the attention to fill their emotional needs, otherwise if they can\u2019t find supply they will emotionally withdraw because they need a regulator (supply(.<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-18\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You have to watch as the narcissist new supply replaces you, but realize they are just trying to fill a void int hem caused on what they were able to drain from you. Now you get to keep all your own energy and watch the emotional vampire move away, it\u2019s freedom.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-2272\" src=\"http:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-3-1024x765.png\" alt=\"Person holding phone, two people sitting.\" width=\"1024\" height=\"765\" srcset=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-3-1024x765.png 1024w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-3-300x224.png 300w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-3-768x573.png 768w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-3-150x112.png 150w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-3.png 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<h4 data-rm-block-id=\"block-19\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">3. They\u2019re Trying to Hurt or Provoke You<\/span><\/h4>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-20\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The narcissist new supply might have been brought in as a tool to provoke jealousy in you or confusion. You are having to watch what looks like the narcissist moving on, but in reality the narcissist is just physically filling the seat you used to have to hurt you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-21\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The narcissist just lost control of you, they are trying to grasp a way to get you to give them the attention they desire from you. Jealousy is one of the first feelings that a narcissist is going to target as a re-entry point into your life. Not because they moved on.<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-22\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s painful to feel instantly replaced, but realize this person, the narcissist new supply, is what they grasped onto like a life raft because they didn\u2019t know what to do without you. They\u2019re lost and intentionally inflicting pain, turn the cheek and focus on you.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-2273\" src=\"http:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-4-1024x765.png\" alt=\"Person walking through a sunlit archway\" width=\"1024\" height=\"765\" srcset=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-4-1024x765.png 1024w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-4-300x224.png 300w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-4-768x573.png 768w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-4-150x112.png 150w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-4.png 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<h4 data-rm-block-id=\"block-23\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">4. They Use Others as Emotional Replacements<\/span><\/h4>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-24\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A narcissist sees themselves as perfect, but they can see that others have emotions and they don\u2019t know what to do so part of being a narcissist new supply is being the one to represent them emotionally to others.<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-25\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sick friend you go visit or give them a get well soon talk. Someone gets engaged and you guys are going to the party, you get the gift, you provide all the customary words of congratulations and the narcissist just shows up.<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-26\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you leave the narcissist, their image is at risk because now they can not appear to be showing up for people and being the great person your efforts made them out to be. They want to protect their image, but they don\u2019t want to be the one that does the work.<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-27\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Emotionally when you watch the narcissist new supply take your place as the emotional replacement with friends and family it is painful to think that everyone is now their friend and not yours. Keep in mind these people are being gaslighted and the truth will come out.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-2274\" src=\"http:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-5-1024x765.png\" alt=\"Desk with notebook, phone, plant, tea\" width=\"1024\" height=\"765\" srcset=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-5-1024x765.png 1024w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-5-300x224.png 300w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-5-768x573.png 768w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-5-150x112.png 150w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-5.png 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<h4 data-rm-block-id=\"block-28\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">5. They Rewrite the Narrative<\/span><\/h4>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-29\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you break up with a narcissist the real reason it ended does not matter in their version. The narcissist new supply is brought in to try to show that the narc\u2019s version is real because otherwise how would they have moved on and your still alone (healing).<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-30\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The narcissist knows their image is at risk in a break up situation. Panic sets in as fast as reality. They\u2019ve probably attempted to get back together and it failed, they need to save their image ASAP, so get someone who doesn\u2019t know the possible truth.<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-31\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">To you, you see your replacement, you should see the narcissist new supply like the gauze holding the narc together, the narc doesn\u2019t know how to function without you. New supply can pick up the workload while you focus on you.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-2275\" src=\"http:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-7-1024x765.png\" alt=\"Man in suit looking at reflection.\" width=\"1024\" height=\"765\" srcset=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-7-1024x765.png 1024w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-7-300x224.png 300w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-7-768x573.png 768w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-7-150x112.png 150w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-7.png 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<h4 data-rm-block-id=\"block-32\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">6. They Thrive on Image and Appearances<\/span><\/h4>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-33\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You see the social media post of the picture of the narcissist with the narcissist new supply, looking happy and loving together. It feels like a knife, but have you ever photo shopped a photo? That\u2019s what this is, it\u2019s a fake relationship flaunted to make up respond.<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-34\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The narcissist wants you to want them, so they need you to see that someone else makes them happy. If you do go back they need to be sure you know your place so that they can maintain control when they get you back, and if not they want to hurt you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-35\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You feel emotionally destroyed when you see the post. It feels like a knife in your heart. But that is why they did it. It\u2019s not to proclaim undying love, it\u2019s to show the world I have a new emotional support human to contact because I can\u2019t do it myself.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-2276\" src=\"http:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-8-1024x765.png\" alt=\"Hand moving chess piece on board.\" width=\"1024\" height=\"765\" srcset=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-8-1024x765.png 1024w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-8-300x224.png 300w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-8-768x573.png 768w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-8-150x112.png 150w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-8.png 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<h4 data-rm-block-id=\"block-36\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">7. They Were Grooming the New Supply All Along<\/span><\/h4>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-37\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When the relationship ended there was probably someone that seemed like they were around a lot more towards the end and now you see that they are with your ex-narc and start wondering how long this was going on.<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-38\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The narcissist is not a resourceful person, they look for what&#8217;s convenient, if someone has been around more lately then they draw them in more with love bombing which has the narcissist new supply seeing hearts and stars and praising the narc to the world.<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-39\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You feel like the relationship between them was building before you were even out of the picture and that part hurts like hell. The narc was grooming this person from the moment they thought you might leave, they always have a back up plan for supply.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 data-rm-block-id=\"block-40\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_It_Really_Means_for_You\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What It Really Means for You\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-41\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-2277\" src=\"http:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-9-1024x765.png\" alt=\"Indoor gathering with gifts and flowers.\" width=\"1024\" height=\"765\" srcset=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-9-1024x765.png 1024w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-9-300x224.png 300w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-9-768x573.png 768w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-9-150x112.png 150w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-9.png 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-42\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The narcissist doesn\u2019t regret the discard portion that hurt you, that was what it was designed to do. What the narcissist regrets is that you didn\u2019t come back like they thought you would so they need to show you someone else will.<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-43\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The narcissist new supply has nothing to do with you or your worth. It has to do with the fact that the narcissist needs supply and while you might be filet mignon and the narcissist new supply is a happy meal with cold fries, the narc wants you to believe they are better.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-44\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you have dated you know that the pool is shallow, so if the narc is settling down with the first person they meet, that just shows how pathetic they are. They didn\u2019t lose you and all of a sudden found their soul mate, they found something to hurt you.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-45\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">See it clearly for what it is: the narcissist and the narcissist new supply are not in real love, they are in the middle of a transaction. The narcissist new supply is getting showered with gifts and attention, who wouldn\u2019t stay around, until the real colors come out.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-46\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Just because the narcissist and the narcissist new supply are not mature enough to not play the I win game after a break up doesn&#8217;t reflect on you. You need to focus on you and your growth\u00a0 and a real healing journey, not a fake jealousy war.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 data-rm-block-id=\"block-47\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_does_a_narcissist_treat_new_supply\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How does a narcissist treat new supply?<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<h2 data-rm-block-id=\"block-48\"><\/h2>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-49\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-2278\" src=\"http:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-10-1024x765.png\" alt=\"Man offering flowers and keys.\" width=\"1024\" height=\"765\" srcset=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-10-1024x765.png 1024w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-10-300x224.png 300w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-10-768x573.png 768w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-10-150x112.png 150w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-10.png 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2 data-rm-block-id=\"block-48\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Signs_the_Narcissist_Is_Using_the_New_Supply_to_Get_to_You\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Signs the Narcissist Is Using the New Supply to Get to You\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-50\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When someone who never shares on social media all of a sudden posts pictures all the time of happy times with the narcissist new supply always shining and being praised.as the best thing that ever happened to them That\u2019s just to cause pain not a real thing.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-51\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You ever hear a random rumor about yourself, and it makes you want to contact the source. Hmmm could that have been the intent of spreading it. They got your attention and a lil supply with the anger. Or you run into the narcissist new supply somewhere you always go.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-52\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How about the friend that tells you all the updates of the new love birds. Do you really need to know any updates? No, the one where the narcissist new supply runs away and they never see them again, ok that one is kind of fun for a giggle.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-53\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You know that the narcissist new supply is getting love bombed. You&#8217;ve been there and done that. But the narc will need you to be aware of how much spoiling the narcissist new supply is getting, in an attempt to make you jealous and get a response.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 data-rm-block-id=\"block-54\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_to_Emotionally_Detach\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to Emotionally Detach\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-55\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-2279\" src=\"http:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-11-1024x765.png\" alt=\"Person writing on beach at sunset.\" width=\"1024\" height=\"765\" srcset=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-11-1024x765.png 1024w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-11-300x224.png 300w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-11-768x573.png 768w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-11-150x112.png 150w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-11.png 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-56\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You know what to expect if you look, so go no contact or limit your exposure to the updates, I mean when you take the trash out do you check the dumps Facebook to see if they recycled your glass items, you don\u2019t need to see how foolish the narcissist new supply is.<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-57\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You want to stay grounded to stay out of the unfolding drama, use journaling, you hear about a trip to Vegas they went on, journal the truth about your last trip to Vegas with them. They post the good, you know the bad that the narcissist new supply is going through.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-58\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Affirm your worth!!! You were not replaced, you were abused and discarded, and you survived like a warrior, and in all wars that are fought there will always be damage to be rebuilt. Right now is your rebuilding time, not to watch media of the narcissist new supply..<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-59\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Seek help, you are not alone, you are not the only one, and you are not broken for what you went through. Having support and informed people around you is a game changer in your healing journey.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-60\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">During a narcissistically abusive relationship you lose yourself, what you enjoy, what you like and don\u2019t like. Take time and rediscover what you enjoy doing and find out where your true happiness is.<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-61\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tip: I visit Walmart regularly, if you check the clearance aisle you can find discounted items to try. I\u2019ve tried pickle ball for $10 and bocci ball for $8, today I bought a fishing pole and tackle kit for $23. Try new things if you don\u2019t like it donate it someone else might.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 data-rm-block-id=\"block-62\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Will_the_New_Supply_Eventually_See_the_Truth\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Will the New Supply Eventually See the Truth?\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-63\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-2280\" src=\"http:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-12-1024x765.png\" alt=\"Sunglasses with cracked lens on table.\" width=\"1024\" height=\"765\" srcset=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-12-1024x765.png 1024w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-12-300x224.png 300w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-12-768x573.png 768w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-12-150x112.png 150w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-12.png 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-64\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The narcissist new supply will eventually see the truth but think back how long did it take you? No one sees it right away, and when we finally do sometimes we\u2019ve already been destroyed emotionally and mentally, and sometimes we catch it early enough to be safe.<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-66\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You have been through the cycles of idealization to devaluation. Do you honestly thing the narcissist new supply is going to miss out on that roller coaster. The narcissist new supply will be treated just as you were, remember you\u2019re growing, they\u2019re staying the same.<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-67\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The narcissist new supply made their own choice, you are not captain save a \u2026. Let them learn on their own, if the narcissist new supply asks your opinion, be careful how you word it, because most likely it will get back to them, so you have to let them learn on their own.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-68\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-2281\" src=\"http:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-13-1024x765.png\" alt=\"Person holding smartphone near door\" width=\"1024\" height=\"765\" srcset=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-13-1024x765.png 1024w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-13-300x224.png 300w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-13-768x573.png 768w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-13-150x112.png 150w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-08-13.png 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-69\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The speed in which the narcissist switch\u2019s to the narcissist new supply, is mind blowing. This is not a reflection on you or the narcissist new supply either. It\u2019s part of the pattern, they need to love bomb, they want supply in return, they are going to jump fast to feed.<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-71\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When the narcissist new supply comes on scene use it as a healing tool. Get mad, get jealous and then get over them. Using the anger to cut the emotional cord is fully encouraged; it lets you start healing and them to move to being a memory.<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-73\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You know the truth about the narcissist new supply, now use this knowledge and stop focusing on them and the narcissist new supply and the false sense of reality they provide. Focus on your truth and reality and use this as a healing tool,<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-74\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you\u2019re noticing signs of narcissistic abuse or you feel stuck in a narcissistic relationship, you\u2019re not alone \u2014 and it\u2019s not your fault. What you\u2019re experiencing is real, and healing is possible.<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-75\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For more support, visit<\/span><a title=\"themarymcconnell.com\" href=\"https:\/\/www.themarymcconnell.com\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">https:\/\/www.themarymcconnell.com<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> for free educational resources, recovery tools, and guidance to help you recognize toxic patterns, rebuild your self-trust, and move forward safely.<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-76\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you need immediate help, support is available 24\/7: <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">National Domestic Violence Hotline<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.thehotline.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">https:\/\/www.thehotline.org\/<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> (1-800-799-7233), <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Crisis Text Line<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> (Text HOME to 741741), and <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">988<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> (Suicide &amp; Crisis Lifeline).<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-77\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Have you dealt with a narcissist or recovered from narcissistic abuse? If you feel safe, share your experience in the comments \u2014 your story might be the moment someone else realizes they\u2019re not \u201ccrazy,\u201d they\u2019re being harmed.<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-78\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Looking for more guidance on narcissism and recovery? Explore the related articles below on boundaries, gaslighting, love bombing, and healing after narcissistic abuse to keep building your path to emotional freedom.<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-79\"><a href=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/narcissist-eyes\/\">The Hidden Meaning Behind the Narcissist Eyes<\/a><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-80\"><a href=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/why-do-narcissists-want-to-hurt-you\/\">Why Do Narcissists Want to Hurt You: The Truth Behind Their Manipulative Behavior<\/a><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-81\"><a href=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/how-to-expose-a-narcissist\/\">How to Expose a Narcissist Safely Without Falling Into Their Trap<\/a><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-82\"><a href=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/what-does-narc-mean\/\">What Does Narc Mean? 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