{"id":2342,"date":"2026-03-16T11:48:24","date_gmt":"2026-03-16T11:48:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/?p=2342"},"modified":"2026-04-11T18:11:50","modified_gmt":"2026-04-11T18:11:50","slug":"love-bombing-cycle","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/love-bombing-cycle\/","title":{"rendered":"Breaking Free from the Love Bombing Cycle: How to Spot and Survive Narcissistic Manipulation"},"content":{"rendered":"<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-1\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-2752\" src=\"http:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Re-EDIT-43.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"2240\" height=\"1260\" \/><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-2\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The love bombing cycle is one of the cycles in narcissistic abuse. This is the cycle that a narcissist uses to lure you in, you get endorphins from the affection and almost get addicted to it. You crave it, and that is how the narcissist sets their hook. Once you crave it they have you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-3\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s usually most noted in romantic relationships, but friends and family can do it with extra attention or extra gifts. It can even happen at work, the co-worker who is always bringing you coffee.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-4\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I want you to walk away from this article with the ability to recognize and understand the signs of love bombing and if you are in this right now how you can start breaking free from the love bombing cycle before you are pulled into the narcissistic abuse cycle.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_81 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/love-bombing-cycle\/#What_is_the_Love_Bombing_Cycle\" >What is the Love Bombing Cycle?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/love-bombing-cycle\/#The_Stages_of_the_Love_Bombing_Cycle\" >The Stages of the Love Bombing Cycle\u00a0<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/love-bombing-cycle\/#Psychological_Impact_of_the_Cycle\" >Psychological Impact of the Cycle\u00a0<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/love-bombing-cycle\/#How_to_Spot_Love_Bombing_Early\" >How to Spot Love Bombing Early<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/love-bombing-cycle\/#How_to_Break_Free_from_the_Love_Bombing_Cycle\" >How to Break Free from the Love Bombing Cycle\u00a0<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/love-bombing-cycle\/#Rebuilding_After_Emotional_Manipulation\" >Rebuilding After Emotional Manipulation\u00a0<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/love-bombing-cycle\/#When_to_Seek_Professional_Help\" >When to Seek Professional Help\u00a0<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2 data-rm-block-id=\"block-5\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_is_the_Love_Bombing_Cycle\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What is the Love Bombing Cycle?<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-6\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-2344\" src=\"http:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-1024x747.png\" alt=\"Woman walking with colorful abstract elements.\" width=\"1024\" height=\"747\" srcset=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-1024x747.png 1024w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-300x219.png 300w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-768x560.png 768w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-150x109.png 150w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11.png 1184w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-7\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Love bombing appears like affection, like the honeymoon stage of a new relationship, but it\u2019s more intense and actually a manipulation tactic a narcissist uses to secure supply to feed their oversized ego.<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-8\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Love bombing isn\u2019t a one time event like the honeymoon phase though, it comes and goes seemingly randomly during the relationship. This isn\u2019t to say your partner can\u2019t be nice just because, but you have to watch for a pattern.<\/span><\/p>\n<h4 data-rm-block-id=\"block-9\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Typical love bombing behaviors are:\u00a0<\/span><\/h4>\n<ul>\n<li data-rm-block-id=\"block-10\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Over the top gestures<\/span><\/li>\n<li data-rm-block-id=\"block-11\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Excessive flattery<\/span><\/li>\n<li data-rm-block-id=\"block-12\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Excessive displays of affection<\/span><\/li>\n<li data-rm-block-id=\"block-13\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Future faking<\/span><\/li>\n<li data-rm-block-id=\"block-14\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Isolating you from others<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-15\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For my birthday my ex planned a trip to Vegas for me and our friends. It was a surprise, it was amazing, but he covered everyone&#8217;s travel, and when he was down at the casino and needed money, there was almost an obligation to loan it to him. They were indebted.<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-16\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Today I still don\u2019t know what that trip cost people that gave him money, but I almost wonder if it was more than they could have booked their own trip for, and the feeling of indebtedness to a friend should never be a thing. Friends are there for each other not to call in favors.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 data-rm-block-id=\"block-17\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_Stages_of_the_Love_Bombing_Cycle\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The Stages of the Love Bombing Cycle\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-18\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-2345\" src=\"http:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-1-1024x765.png\" alt=\"Two hands exchanging a flower bouquet\" width=\"1024\" height=\"765\" srcset=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-1-1024x765.png 1024w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-1-300x224.png 300w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-1-768x573.png 768w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-1-150x112.png 150w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-1.png 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<h4 data-rm-block-id=\"block-19\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">1. Idealization<\/span><\/h4>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-20\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Breaking free from the love bombing cycle is difficult. With the grand gestures, and the overwhelming attention topped off with promises of forever. It feels like you&#8217;re living in a fairytale. Because you are. This is a short lived hook to get you addicted.<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-21\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">During the love bombing cycle everything feels so euphoric. You feel like you&#8217;re living a dream life that is \u201ctoo good to be true\u201d. It is too good to be true, The narcissist is lazy, they can only keep this act going for so long. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-2346\" src=\"http:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-2-1024x765.png\" alt=\"Cozy caf\u00e9 scene with rainy window\" width=\"1024\" height=\"765\" srcset=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-2-1024x765.png 1024w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-2-300x224.png 300w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-2-768x573.png 768w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-2-150x112.png 150w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-2.png 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<h4 data-rm-block-id=\"block-22\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">2. Devaluation<\/span><\/h4>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-23\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After all the attention, imagine now sudden coldness from the narcissist that was just showering you with attention and affection. Then starts in the gaslighting and criticism. You go from the high of queen to the low of a servant in the flash of an eye.<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-24\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As victims we start to feel confused, we felt loved and adored and now we feel like scum. And the narcissist will shift the blame to us for the shift in behavior, usually for something we didn\u2019t even do. The confusion this causes in victims is designed to gain control, by way of your feeling of guilt.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-2347\" src=\"http:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-3-1024x747.png\" alt=\"Rose and letter at door\" width=\"1024\" height=\"747\" srcset=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-3-1024x747.png 1024w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-3-300x219.png 300w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-3-768x560.png 768w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-3-150x109.png 150w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-3.png 1184w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<h4 data-rm-block-id=\"block-25\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">3. Discard or Ghosting<\/span><\/h4>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-26\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you do not come under control of the narcissist, it is time for you to think you are about to get dumped. An abrupt emotional withdrawal, of the full discard of a physical withdrawal. This is to snap you to attention that if you don\u2019t obey you are no longer of value to the narc.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-27\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No surprise but this often follows a conflict or we the victim setting a boundary. The narcissist expects us to be loyal and obedient in the relationship so if we are standing up for ourselves, this is not ok and they want to teach us a lesson.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-2348\" src=\"http:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-4-1024x747.png\" alt=\"Person on phone in dim room.\" width=\"1024\" height=\"747\" srcset=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-4-1024x747.png 1024w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-4-300x219.png 300w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-4-768x560.png 768w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-4-150x109.png 150w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-4.png 1184w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<h4 data-rm-block-id=\"block-28\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">4. Hoovering\u00a0<\/span><\/h4>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-29\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The hoovering stage takes place after the discard, this is to try to get you back into the love bombing cycle. If they can reinitiate the cycle during this stage you are coming back into the relationship you were previously in, but a little less self-confident and self-loving.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-30\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The narcissist will use emotional bait in this stage vs. the showering of gifts in the initial love bombing cycle. Statements like \u201cI\u2019ve changed\u201d or \u201cyou\u2019re my soulmate\u201d. This is to trigger an emotional response in you to get you to reconnect and become under control again.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 data-rm-block-id=\"block-31\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Psychological_Impact_of_the_Cycle\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Psychological Impact of the Cycle\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-32\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-2349\" src=\"http:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-5-1024x747.png\" alt=\"Woman gazing into a cracked mirror.\" width=\"1024\" height=\"747\" srcset=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-5-1024x747.png 1024w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-5-300x219.png 300w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-5-768x560.png 768w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-5-150x109.png 150w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-5.png 1184w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-33\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Psychologically the love bombing cycle creates cognitive dissonance as the victims. We are constantly asking ourselves \u201cIs this love or manipulation?\u201d. The truth is it\u2019s manipulation disguised as love.<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-34\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The love bombing cycle is so confusing to us as victims we get lost in an emotional addiction. No they are not healthy emotions we are addicted to but a crack addiction isn\u2019t something healthy either. The addiction to the love bombing cycle is what leads to our trauma bond.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-35\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The ultimate effect of the love bombing cycle on us, the victims, is the damaged self worth that leads to anxiety which ultimately leads to depression. The cycle takes more and more of our self worth each time we go through it.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-36\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The love bombing cycle is mostly seen being employed by someone with narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) this love bombing cycle is part of the overall abuse cycle and is to create a false sense of intimacy and dependency.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 data-rm-block-id=\"block-37\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_to_Spot_Love_Bombing_Early\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to Spot Love Bombing Early<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-38\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-2350\" src=\"http:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-6-1024x747.png\" alt=\"Notebook, phone, and cup of coffee.\" width=\"1024\" height=\"747\" srcset=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-6-1024x747.png 1024w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-6-300x219.png 300w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-6-768x560.png 768w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-6-150x109.png 150w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-6.png 1184w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<h4 data-rm-block-id=\"block-39\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Red flags checklist:<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/h4>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"2\" data-rm-block-id=\"block-40\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Over-the-top compliments early on &#8211; Compliments are nice and part of a new relationship. But are you really the all time greatest person this person has ever met in life and they can\u2019t imagine life without, after 1\u00a0 or 2 dates. <\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"2\" data-rm-block-id=\"block-41\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pressure to commit fast &#8211; First date is coming to an end, and they want to be sure neither of you is talking to anyone else. That is a lockdown not a commitment. They are securing their supply.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"2\" data-rm-block-id=\"block-42\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Guilt-tripping when you need space &#8211; You have your own life, before and when you meet this person. If someone is coming in and needs to be an immediate priority over all other aspects of your life, that is the beginning of control.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"2\" data-rm-block-id=\"block-43\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;Future faking&#8221; &#8211; This is the person that is ready to buy a house together as the second date, or plan the nursery after the first time you kiss. This is the love bombing\u00a0 cycle of making you desire the future with them at any cost.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-44\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Genuine love is something that is built over time with two people that enjoy each other&#8217;s company and want to be around each other and enjoy common interests. The love bombing cycle is fast tracking a fake version of love, so that a narcissist can get their supply.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 data-rm-block-id=\"block-45\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_to_Break_Free_from_the_Love_Bombing_Cycle\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to Break Free from the Love Bombing Cycle\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-46\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-2351\" src=\"http:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-7-1024x765.png\" alt=\"Hand wearing heart-shaped bracelet.\" width=\"1024\" height=\"765\" srcset=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-7-1024x765.png 1024w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-7-300x224.png 300w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-7-768x573.png 768w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-7-150x112.png 150w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-7.png 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<h4 data-rm-block-id=\"block-47\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">1. Set Boundaries<\/span><\/h4>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-48\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No. This is a sentence. It is so uncomfortable to say, especially without justifying it. That is how we are programmed by the narcissist especially in the love bombing cycle, who wants to say no to someone who is showering you with gifts and compliments.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<h4 data-rm-block-id=\"block-49\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">2. Cut Contact (When Safe)<\/span><\/h4>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-50\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Grey rock and block rock methods both can end a love bombing cycle. If the narcissist can\u2019t access you fully how can they continue the love bombing cycle on you. This is your escape journey and no contact as painful as it is, is a necessary part of the healing.<\/span><\/p>\n<h4 data-rm-block-id=\"block-51\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">3. Build Emotional Independence<\/span><\/h4>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-52\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You have been through a war, that\u2019s why they call it the love \u201cbombing\u201d cycle. You need help to heal. Therapists and coaches that are familiar with abuse are a great source for clarity. A support group is an amazing opportunity to connect with people at your level of healing.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-53\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">During your healing cycle connect with \u201csafe\u201d family and friends, if there is a cross with the narcissist, I recommend arm&#8217;s length friendships until fully healed. Narcissists are known to have flying monkeys working for them.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-54\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-2352\" src=\"http:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-8-1024x747.png\" alt=\"Calendar, ring box, smartphone on table\" width=\"1024\" height=\"747\" srcset=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-8-1024x747.png 1024w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-8-300x219.png 300w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-8-768x560.png 768w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-8-150x109.png 150w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-8.png 1184w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<h4 data-rm-block-id=\"block-55\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">4. Journal and Reflect<\/span><\/h4>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-56\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Take time to reflect after a love bombing cycle, this is your chance to compare past relationships and spot any patterns or traits that may be red flags. This gives you clarity in what you want to avoid in the future.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-57\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Give yourself a double check. What are your values and beliefs not what the narcissist values and believes in, what you actually value and believe in. When you exit the love bombing cycle, you have been programmed with likes and dislikes that may not be yours.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 data-rm-block-id=\"block-58\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Rebuilding_After_Emotional_Manipulation\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Rebuilding After Emotional Manipulation\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-59\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-2353\" src=\"http:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-9-1024x765.png\" alt=\"A woman stands inside by a rain-speckled window, looking out at a small group of people laughing together outside, while a shadowy figure\u2019s hand grips the doorframe behind her.\" width=\"1024\" height=\"765\" srcset=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-9-1024x765.png 1024w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-9-300x224.png 300w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-9-768x573.png 768w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-9-150x112.png 150w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-9.png 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-60\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After escaping the love bombing cycle, focus on healing your inner self. Taking time for self-care is a priority, also scheduling and maintaining therapy and support groups you do not want to stop the healing. And find hobbies, what makes you happy.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-61\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Practice radical self-love. You are all you got and all you need. You deserve to love yourself because there is only one of you. You\u2019ve just been through a lot and need time to heal these wounds if you feel you are anything other than perfect.<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-62\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Focus on self-trust, are you going to make the wrong decision sometimes, yes it\u2019s called being human, but trust yourself to know what\u2019s best for you and if you make a wrong decision learn from it and next time try something different.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-63\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cRecovery isn\u2019t linear.\u201d because each one of us is a different person who has been through a different experience. There will be good days and bad days and that is normal in life. We all go through our own journey but we are on the same path, so support is out there.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 data-rm-block-id=\"block-64\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"When_to_Seek_Professional_Help\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When to Seek Professional Help\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-65\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-2354\" src=\"http:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-10-1024x747.png\" alt=\" woman in a navy suit stands in an open doorway with her palm raised in a clear \u201cstop\u201d gesture, with daylight and greenery visible outside.\" width=\"1024\" height=\"747\" srcset=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-10-1024x747.png 1024w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-10-300x219.png 300w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-10-768x560.png 768w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-10-150x109.png 150w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-10.png 1184w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-66\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are a lot of different options and deciding what is going to help you the most is what is important. Reach out and talk to each resource personally to make sure you find what is going to be the most effective and beneficial for your healing journey. Options include:\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-67\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Therapy options: CBT, EMDR, trauma-informed care, DBT, Hypnotherapy, the list goes on but your goal here is to find a professional with an education in abuse recovery and healing from trauma and depression. Personal experience is an added education.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-68\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Resources: hotlines, narcissistic abuse recovery forums. Domestic violence shelters. You are not going to be left out on the street like the narcissist threatened if you leave. There are government and private groups to help in the healing process.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-69\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you notice a sign that you don\u2019t think you should wait to talk to someone. It\u2019s already past time to start talking to someone. You can even start watching videos and reading memes online, but don\u2019t wait to reach out, you can end up sinking deeper.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-70\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-2355\" src=\"http:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-11-1024x747.png\" alt=\"A woman in athletic wear stands on a beach at sunset holding headphones, with tangled rope lying on the sand in front of her, symbolizing breaking free from constraints.\" width=\"1024\" height=\"747\" srcset=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-11-1024x747.png 1024w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-11-300x219.png 300w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-11-768x560.png 768w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-11-150x109.png 150w, https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/generated-image-2026-02-11-11.png 1184w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-71\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Love bombing is different from love. Love is something pure that builds over time, love bombing is a slam of months of building a relationship and love into a 1 hour movie and expecting you to feel the same effect in the movie version vs. real life.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-72\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you are going through a love bombing cycle, prioritize your emotional well-being. If it doesn\u2019t feel like love and it feels like a love bombing cycle it\u2019s time to leave, before you go back into the devaluing cycle that will damage your self-image.<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-73\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you\u2019re noticing signs of narcissistic abuse or you feel stuck in a narcissistic relationship, you\u2019re not alone \u2014 and it\u2019s not your fault. What you\u2019re experiencing is real, and healing is possible.<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-74\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For more support, visit<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarymcconnell.com\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">https:\/\/www.themarymcconnell.com<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> for free educational resources, recovery tools, and guidance to help you recognize toxic patterns, rebuild your self-trust, and move forward safely.<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-75\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you need immediate help, support is available 24\/7: <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">National Domestic Violence Hotline<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.thehotline.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">https:\/\/www.thehotline.org\/<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> (1-800-799-7233), <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Crisis Text Line<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> (Text HOME to 741741), and <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">988<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> (Suicide &amp; Crisis Lifeline).<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-76\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Have you dealt with a narcissist or recovered from narcissistic abuse? If you feel safe, share your experience in the comments \u2014 your story might be the moment someone else realizes they\u2019re not \u201ccrazy,\u201d they\u2019re being harmed.<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-77\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Looking for more guidance on narcissism and recovery? Explore the related articles below on boundaries, gaslighting, love bombing, and healing after narcissistic abuse to keep building your path to emotional freedom.<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-78\"><a href=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/narcissist-eyes\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The Hidden Meaning Behind the Narcissist Eyes<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-79\"><a href=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/why-do-narcissists-want-to-hurt-you\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Why Do Narcissists Want to Hurt You: The Truth Behind Their Manipulative Behavior<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-80\"><a href=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/how-to-expose-a-narcissist\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to Expose a Narcissist Safely Without Falling Into Their Trap<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-81\"><a href=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/what-does-narc-mean\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What Does Narc Mean? A Deep Dive into Narcissism and Its Impact on Relationships<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-82\"><a href=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/narcissist-and-the-silent-treatment\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Narcissist and the Silent Treatment: How to Recognize, Respond and Reclaim Your Voice<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-83\"><a href=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/narcissist-at-work\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dealing with a Narcissist at Work: 9 Survival Strategies to Protect Your Sanity and Career<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-84\"><a href=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/how-to-shut-down-a-narcissist\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to Shut Down a Narcissist: 7 Powerful Responses to Silence Them<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-85\"><a href=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/narcissistic-traits-in-males\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Narcissistic Traits in Males: 12 Disturbing Signs You Can\u2019t Ignore<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p data-rm-block-id=\"block-86\"><a href=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/do-narcissists-know-they-are-narcissists\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do Narcissists Know They Are Narcissists? 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