{"id":2885,"date":"2026-04-24T09:47:17","date_gmt":"2026-04-24T09:47:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/?p=2885"},"modified":"2026-04-24T09:47:17","modified_gmt":"2026-04-24T09:47:17","slug":"7-stages-of-grief","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/7-stages-of-grief\/","title":{"rendered":"From Survival to Freedom: The 7 Stages of Grief After Narcissistic Abuse\u00a0"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-2886\" src=\"http:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/Blogs-Cover-Photos-54.png\" alt=\"From Survival to Freedom: The 7 Stages of Grief After Narcissistic Abuse\" width=\"2240\" height=\"1260\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Have you ever felt like you were mourning someone who was in your imagination and didn\u2019t truly exist? That is what recovering from narcissistic abuse is like. You have this memory of the abuser in the love-bombing phase, because that\u2019s what you want to remember, as you go through the 7 stages of grief.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But as you go from survival to freedom you go through the 7 stages of grief in your journey. While we all have our own unique journey in recovering from narcissistic abuse, the stages we go through are similar.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Healing is possible, even when it feels like it\u2019s not, you\u2019re not alone, others of us have been there and the real trick is to not give up. I want to reassure you by showing you tthe 7 stages of grief I identified during my healing journey. So, you can have the confidence to continue on your journey.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-2887\" src=\"http:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/Survival-to-Freedom-hero.png\" alt=\"Confident woman in stylish suit\" width=\"1184\" height=\"864\" \/><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_81 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/7-stages-of-grief\/#Why_Grief_Follows_Narcissistic_Abuse\" >Why Grief Follows Narcissistic Abuse\u00a0<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/7-stages-of-grief\/#The_7_Stages_of_Grief_After_Narcissistic_Abuse\" >The 7 Stages of Grief After Narcissistic Abuse\u00a0<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/7-stages-of-grief\/#Why_This_Journey_Isnt_Linear\" >Why This Journey Isn&#8217;t Linear\u00a0<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/7-stages-of-grief\/#How_to_Navigate_Each_Stage\" >How to Navigate Each Stage\u00a0<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/7-stages-of-grief\/#Moving_Beyond_Grief_Healing_in_Action\" >Moving Beyond Grief: Healing in Action\u00a0<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Why_Grief_Follows_Narcissistic_Abuse\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Why Grief Follows Narcissistic Abuse\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You now know what was happening in the background with the manipulation. Happy memories are starting to show cracks of manipulation. The gaslighting is starting to show it\u2019s true purpose, you were in love, and it felt comfortable. This is what they refer to as the trauma bond.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No matter how toxic you learn your situation was, it felt like it was real when it happened. That&#8217;s the purpose of the manipulation and gaslighting. You think it\u2019s a good thing they are doing but now you&#8217;re learning how twisted they were. It\u2019s normal to feel like you loved them.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Because you did love the person they were pretending to be and you were being manipulated into someone that was obedient. When you leave and start the healing process you often ask yourself who am I? You do truly suffer from a form of identity loss.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The National Library of Medicine has a paper <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/books\/NBK507832\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Grief and Prolonged Grief Disorder &#8211; StatPearls &#8211; NCBI Bookshelf<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> that explains how grief becomes more complex and longer lasting when layered with manipulation, and betrayal, leading to identity erosion<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-2888\" src=\"http:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/Denial-self-doubt.png\" alt=\"Woman reflecting in mirror, contemplative mood.\" width=\"1184\" height=\"864\" \/><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_7_Stages_of_Grief_After_Narcissistic_Abuse\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The 7 Stages of Grief After Narcissistic Abuse\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Denial &amp; Self\u2011Doubt:\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You\u2019re struggling to accept the abuse even happened, we are manipulated to believe we wanted to do the things that were out of character for us. We truly believed we were being treated appropriately because that was how the abuser had programmed our minds.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We were so programmed most of the time making a decision without them is impossible. The first decisions you try to make you will want to call them and ask what to do, because that was what was normal. Now you are trying to get to a healthy normal ,if feels weird.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You have to trust yourself to make decisions, start small and accept consequences as learning opportunities, now you know for yourself how not to do it, so try a different way until you find what works, but never give up, or go back and ask your abuser to handle it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Shock &amp; Confusion:\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You spend time while going the 7 stages of grief with an emotional overload. As reality sets in and the manipulated details start to clear up. You are having a full reality shift of course it\u2019s ok to feel confused and shocked, and sad and happy and how ever you feel.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You honestly start questioning every memory in your life and you will be shocked when you are starting to see the narcissistic tactics in your own life. As you learn more you question more and that is healthy. You deserve to understand what you\u2019ve been through.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you feel the shock and confusion setting in, I find it best to journal it. Sometimes what you are being shocked by is a behavior that you were never expecting or a new perspective on an old memory.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Take time with this new information. I personally give myself 48 hours to run through any emotions before addressing a new shocking or confusing situation. It allows you to get the emotions out of you then look at the facts only and make a decision.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Awareness &amp; Identification:\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yes, you were abused, now you need to name the experience as narcissistic abuse. Sounds easy like just a few words right? It\u2019s not, you are becoming aware of things you didn\u2019t realize were happening to you after they\u2019ve already damaged you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You need to keep learning and identifying it though. As you enter new relationships with this new information you are getting it will help you to prevent repeating the same relationship with a different abuser.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There is also the direction here where everybody you meet is a narcissist, you are just seeing a single interaction don\u2019t jump to conclusions. The awareness and ability to identify narcissistic behaviors and patterns becomes a shield against future abuse.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you are becoming aware and identifying behaviors, remember that it is patterns not a single act that make someone show signs of Narcissism, so be aware and of course cautious, but be human as well and accept that people can do one thing and not have NPD.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-2889\" src=\"http:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/Awareness-identification.png\" alt=\"Woman examining art with magnifying glass\" width=\"1184\" height=\"864\" \/><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Separation &amp; Trauma Bond Breaking:\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Black rock is hard to do, but it is necessary in order to heal and break the trauma bond. If you have ever tried a diet or to give up a habit like smoking this is the same level of commitment you have to have.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If a narcissist finds a boundary they can push they will break it into a million pieces. You have to keep your boundaries firm. This sounds harsh but any crack they can find they will find a way to manipulate their way back into your life.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">My narc would ask me these common knowledge questions that sounded urgent just to get me to respond. Things like \u201cWhat\u2019s my password for this account\u201d if I answer he then wants to bait me into a full blown conversation then we\u2019re having dinner, etc, etc.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">My advice is if you don\u2019t have to respond, don&#8217;t. If it\u2019s vital information that you feel you should provide, send it in a business tone, and when the baiting message comes back then you can stop responding.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Complicated Grief:\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You had a life or a plan with this person. You have the right to mourn the emotional investment and plans you had in this relationship. You may think you are mourning the person and feel like you&#8217;re not healing but you are actually mourning the plans you had.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you start to realize you are sad because you are not going to take the trip to Costa Rica you guys had always talked about, you are mourning the trip itself not the abuser.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The grief is complicated because you feel like you\u2019re not supposed to be missing this person, yet here you are daydreaming about the trip with them. It takes time sitting back and looking at what you are actually missing. It&#8217;s the trip not the partner.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Once you have that realization you can start removing the abuser from the plans you once made together and start making the actual plans instead of the future faking plans you received all along. Then take that trip or whatever it is your dream is to do.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Education &amp; Empowerment:\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As you start to understand what\u00a0 you were subjected to it\u2019s natural to want to learn more, it\u2019s also empowering. It\u2019s like knowing more about your opponent than your opponent knows about themselves.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The first lesson though never tell them about what you are learning. They can and will use this new knowledge against you before you realize it. The idea behind learning about the traits is to allow you to see the patterns and how they affect you.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As you see the gaslighting you can make note of it, and let yourself stay centered with the truth while listening to the lies. You are reclaiming your power and rebuilding your self worth by ignoring their belittling comments to manipulate you into doing what they want you to do.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As you see the patterns, learn from them as well as continue to learn more. You are learning to protect yourself from the manipulation and allowing yourself to start being you again instead of the shell they are turning you into.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-2890\" src=\"http:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/Recovery-reclamation.png\" alt=\"Woman walking on a serene path.\" width=\"1184\" height=\"864\" \/><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Recovery &amp; Reclamation:\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As you are going through each stage you are growing and rebuilding your self-worth. And yes you are building relationships. But there comes a time when you start to let go of some relationships and habits you thought were healthy for healing.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There does come a start of recovery, you will start to see healthy vs. unhealthy relationships and slowly gravitate away from some of the unhealthy things you may have done during your healing stages.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some of us quit drinking or smoking, or start a new career. This is a time that you now trust yourself to make decisions and you face the consequences as the lessons they are. You build a life that is about you, not a life built around someone else.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-2891\" src=\"http:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/Not-linear-journey.png\" alt=\"Person walking on a stone pathway.\" width=\"1184\" height=\"864\" \/><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Why_This_Journey_Isnt_Linear\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Why This Journey Isn&#8217;t Linear\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No two people are alike, and an abusive relationship involves at least two people, so no two victims&#8217; stories are the same. Stages may be in a different order, or you might skip a stage or repeat it. It\u2019s your journey and no one else&#8217;s.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If we all suffered and healed from our abuse exactly the same they could find a pill for us to pop and be cured. Our abuse stories are all as unique as we are and we are all going to heal at their own pace as long as you&#8217;re moving forward, you are on your journey. And sometimes even if you take a step back.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-2892\" src=\"http:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/Healing-in-action.png\" alt=\"Woman painting with watercolors indoors.\" width=\"1184\" height=\"864\" \/><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_to_Navigate_Each_Stage\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to Navigate Each Stage\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Using self-awareness tools helps you navigate through the 7 stages of grief with journaling you can reflect back and see where you are to help with your self-awareness. Adding in mood tracking helps you analyze your true feelings rather than manipulated statements.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You want to have strategies as you go through each stage of your journey through the 7 stages of grief. Therapists and support groups are great to have for real life situation planning. Also using boundary setting scripts to plan ahead before you&#8217;re in the middle of the battle.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For rebuilding your self-worth use comforting affirmations: \u201cI am not broken,\u201d \u201cMy grief is valid.\u201d as reminders daily. You are fighting a battle, think of these affirmations as your daily fuel to get going, and gentle reminders throughout your day.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-2893\" src=\"http:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/Future-anchored-in-view.png\" alt=\"Woman holding light at sunset\" width=\"1184\" height=\"864\" \/><\/h2>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Moving_Beyond_Grief_Healing_in_Action\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Moving Beyond Grief: Healing in Action\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As you are going through the 7 stages of grief this is your time to find yourself. Try new things, maybe a new hobby, a new friendship or even a move or career reset. You are building a life for you so find what makes you happy.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Above all, be patient with yourself. Your trust will grow, but it takes time. Keep your future anchored in your view, knowing it is a journey to get from survival to freedom, with a lot of lessons along the way. But the freedom is definitely worth the work.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-2894\" src=\"http:\/\/themarymcconnell.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/From-survival-to-freedom-collage.png\" alt=\"Journey from obscurity to clarity\" width=\"1184\" height=\"864\" \/><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The grief you feel after escaping narcissist abuse is real and it is painful. Understanding it though is part of the path through the 7 stages of grief. And builds us up to who we truly are under all the crap the narcissist has weighed us down with.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Everyone needs to take their time and go at their own pace, each journey is as unique as the victims story so all movement towards freedom is at the right pace for that person. Take your time, enjoy the journey, and smell the flowers along the way. This isn\u2019t a race, this is healing.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you\u2019re noticing signs of narcissistic abuse or you feel stuck in a narcissistic relationship, you\u2019re not alone \u2014 and it\u2019s not your fault. What you\u2019re experiencing is real, and healing is possible.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For more support, visit<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarymcconnell.com\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">https:\/\/www.themarymcconnell.com<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> for free educational resources, recovery tools, and guidance to help you recognize toxic patterns, rebuild your self-trust, and move forward safely.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you need immediate help, support is available 24\/7: <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">National Domestic Violence Hotline<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.thehotline.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">https:\/\/www.thehotline.org\/<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> (1-800-799-7233), <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Crisis Text Line<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> (Text HOME to 741741), and <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">988<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> (Suicide &amp; Crisis Lifeline).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Have you dealt with a narcissist or recovered from narcissistic abuse? If you feel safe, share your experience in the comments \u2014 your story might be the moment someone else realizes they\u2019re not \u201ccrazy,\u201d they\u2019re being harmed.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Looking for more guidance on narcissism and recovery? 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