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You're not imagining it. And you don't have to heal alone.

I'm Mary McConnell, a survivor-first coach and RTT hypnotherapist. I help women find their footing again after narcissistic abuse, coercive control and high-conflict divorce.

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Two ways I help, and they work beautifully together.

Pillar 1

Abuse & Coercive Control Recovery

Understand what happened, steady your nervous system and rebuild your life, with guides, a supportive community, my Reclaim course and private coaching.

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Pillar 2

RTT Hypnotherapy

Calm anxiety, quit smoking or vaping, and quiet the patterns that keep you stuck, with private RTT sessions and recordings you can use at home.

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Where the two meet: Hypnotherapy for Abuse Recovery →

Three gentle ways to begin

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A short guided audio to help your body settle when your mind won't stop.

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A free weekly gathering with other survivors. Come as you are, camera optional.

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The Reclaim course, private coaching, RTT sessions, or divorce coaching with attorney liaison.

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Hi, I'm Mary.

I've walked this road myself. I know what it's like to doubt your own memory, to walk on eggshells, and to wonder who you were before it all started.

Today I combine trauma-informed coaching with Rapid Transformational Therapy (RTT) to help women feel steady, clear and like themselves again, at their own pace.

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Going through a divorce or custody case?

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My Divorce Coaching + Attorney Liaison packages are available to women in any US state. I help you get organized, stay steady, and coordinate logistics with your own attorney in your state.

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I am a coach and attorney liaison, not an attorney or paralegal. I do not give legal advice or prepare, review or file legal documents. Your own attorney, licensed in your state, leads your case.

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Narcissistic Abuse and PTSD

Why your body still reacts, and how to be gentle with it.

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