Mary McConnell | Survivor-first support
MARY MCCONNELL

Survivor-first, trauma-informed support

You deserve support that feels safe, practical, and on your side.

Coaching and hypnosis for women rebuilding self-trust after narcissistic abuse, plus gentle support for quitting smoking or vaping.

Start with Calm Anxiety — FreeExplore paid sessions

A gentle place to begin

If anxiety is loud right now, Calm Anxiety is a free first step. If you are ready for focused change, choose the session that fits your goal. Every option respects your agency and lived experience.

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Why Do Narcissists Lie? Reasons That You Need to Know

Why Do Narcissists Lie? Reasons That You Need to Know

Why do narcissists lie? Learn the real reasons—control, image, supply, and avoiding accountability—plus how to protect yourself with patterns, boundaries, and documentation. Free tools: themarymcconne... ...more

Narcissistic Manipulation Tactics (Red Flags & Mind Games)

September 18, 202611 min read

Narcissist Love Bombing: How to Spot the Signs Before It’s Too Late

Narcissist Love Bombing: How to Spot the Signs Before It’s Too Late

What is narcissist love bombing? Learn the signs, why it feels addictive, and how it leads to devaluation and trauma bonding—plus how to protect yourself with boundaries and clarity. Free tools: thema... ...more

Narcissistic Manipulation Tactics (Red Flags & Mind Games)

September 17, 202611 min read

Narcissist Breadcrumbing: Why They Give Just Enough to Keep You Chasing Their Validation

Narcissist Breadcrumbing: Why They Give Just Enough to Keep You Chasing Their Validation

Narcissist breadcrumbing keeps you “almost loved” with small bursts of attention, then withdrawal. Learn the signs, why it’s addictive, and how to break the cycle with boundaries and self-trust. Get f... ...more

Narcissistic Manipulation Tactics (Red Flags & Mind Games)

September 16, 20269 min read

Narcissist and the Silent Treatment: How to Recognize, Respond and Reclaim Your Voice

Narcissist and the Silent Treatment: How to Recognize, Respond and Reclaim Your Voice

he narcissist’s silent treatment isn’t “space”—it’s control. Learn the signs, why it hurts so much, and how to respond with boundaries, Gray Rock, and support so you stop chasing and start healing. Fr... ...more

Narcissistic Manipulation Tactics (Red Flags & Mind Games)

September 15, 202612 min read

Narcissist Tactics You Need to Know: The Subtle Ways That Drain You

Narcissist Tactics You Need to Know: The Subtle Ways That Drain You

Narcissist tactics are subtle—but they drain you fast. Learn the most common manipulation patterns (gaslighting, love bombing, triangulation, future faking, blame-shifting) and how to protect yourself... ...more

Narcissistic Manipulation Tactics (Red Flags & Mind Games)

September 14, 202610 min read

Do Narcissists Know They Are Narcissists? The Truth About Their Self-Perception and Denial

Do Narcissists Know They Are Narcissists? The Truth About Their Self-Perception and Denial

Do narcissists know they’re narcissists? Learn how self-awareness works in NPD, why denial and blame-shifting are common, and how to protect yourself from manipulation. Free tools: themarymcconnell.co... ...more

Narcissism Explained (Definitions, Causes, Psychology)

September 11, 202614 min read